7 habits of highly successful teens habits 5

5 seek  first  to understand  and  then  to be  understood  because  most  people  don't  listen  very  well  one  of  the great frustrations in  life  is  that  many  don't  feel understood  this  habit  will  ensure your teen  wants  to be  respected and  valued  for  who  they  are  a unique  one  of  a kind never  to be  cloned individual people  don't  care  how much  you know  until  they know  how  much  you care  listen  with  your eyes  heart  and  ears  7  percent  of   communication is  contained  in  the  words we use  the rest  comes  from body  language  53 percent  of  most people  are  eager  to talk  and had  rather  talk  have  one mouth   and two  eager  to talk  this means   while   we should  listen  we  as  much  listen  really  listen  seek    understood  listen